Friday, November 24, 2006

Angels in the building

GA saw a girl in a nice attire, shirt and skirt. He suggested to add to the angels list. Hmm, he didn't know that that girl is already in the list :-)

MsAD was surprised to see the new fan joining the busy fan club. Then the original angel (the title given to her by all judges) came in the hall. What a dressing sense! So cute and lovable!! She was in her jeans and shirt. Both dark colored and went well with her fair complexion. Madam had styled her hair at US. That is an added advantage. I gave 20 more points for today's occasion, RS increased by 25.

Wah! what a coincidence! The little angel also came in a similar dress. Good. There are divided opinion on including little angel to the list. I say why not. RS feels otherwise as she is rarely seen smiling. Since I get a good smile at all occasion, I am comfortable vetoing for the cause.

For few of the cubicle dwellers, the lunch hall provides a relief out of the otherwise dull life. The variety of color, texture (I meant the dress), lifts the soul and nourishes a happy mood. Guess many are motivated to come to office with such incentives.

Btw, when I was working in US, this is a difference I felt. At US, most of the Indian guys go alone, after few years they marry a girl at India. One would find very few unmarried Indian girls. Compared to the Indian population, this number could be negligible. In such situation, a guy might be deprived of interacting with opposite sex and may have a suppression of feelings. This may not be explicit or understood by the person, but could cause some kind of loneliness and depression. This is more at a psychological level and may vary between person to person, with their interest and mind set.

2 comments:

swarna said...

" All Men are Flirts ?!"

When I heard this sentence many years ago from the mouth of a friend, I did not quite agree with it as I had always thought that devotion to a lover or spouse, which is quite natural for women, is a quality of many a good gentlemen. But down the lane of experience( of others as well as mine) I slowly started to gain more and more evidences for the fact which is disgusting to many a devoted wives. The saying " Virginity is a lack of opportunity" suits men the best.In an attempt to trace out the root causes of such a behaviour, I realized that the main reason could be the "outcome" of such a behaviour in the most basic sense. It is a plain fact that nature has given the arduous responsibility of bearing the off-springs to women and they are the ones who face the consequences of a relationship. Hence it is quite possible that men's psyche has evolved to look at man-women relationship as an enjoyment alone whereas women's psyche associates it with commitment and responsibility. But as we can see, these attitudes are quite primitive and those of men's is against the later and more evolved version of the society where the concept of "family" came in. One to one relationship is important for the integrity of the family which has many advantages in the social concept. Even the western world which has a very liberal culture, respects it. Hence,in my opinion, wise married men who want to preserve the integrity of the family should try to overcome their "primitive" nature and start respecting the one to one concept which will be a relief to their devoted wives.

Anonymous said...

RS:

JB, what can I say.... how about changing the title to "The Angel and Others"
How can you just include every other good girl to the Angel list! Not to mention, the JB coined "little angel" ( no match to The Angel, no matter how many "little" you prefix with ) who possibly similes to none other than JB, due to which JB has exaggerated to crown her with a title "little angel"

So, I, RS, as a privileged member of the lunch team veto your decision.