Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Second impressions

Happen to talk to couple of friends who are divorsed and searching for a re-marriage.
Seems like their market is slightly different than the freshers.

Here are some code of conduct in this world.

  • If asked about the failure of previous marriage, invariably everyone blames their ex.
  • Who initiated the divorce? Seems like you get extra point if you initiated and moved out of the marriage. So, most likely you will hear the answer that they initiated. However, if a girl says that her ex was cheating on her, then the answer would be that the man started the divorce process - this answer will create more sympathy for the girl.
  • Why do you want to marry again? Here are few answers:
    • I am not for it. Just for the social pressure.
    • This time I am going to make sure I dont do the same mistakes
  • During their first dating, they will check if this person shares the same negative qualities of their ex.

2 comments:

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Pri said...

hmm well...its tough to comment if u not in the person's shoes...
so il'l prefer to stay silent...